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Article for May 2004: Can One Attorney Represent Both Parties?

        I had already prepared an article for May, when a potential client came in and presented me with a situation that cried out for attention.  So I scrapped the other article and began work on this one. The question that she presented is: "Can an attorney represent both parties in a legal dispute? Good question, let's see if we can figure out the answer.

        Typically this situation arises  in a divorce case and the motive for even considering this option are the evil twins,  greed and revenge. The Chinese are reputed to have a saying that goes "One who sets out on revenge should first dig two graves. One for his victim and one for himself."  I would strongly suggest that any of you who are considering allowing the other party to totally control the negotiations to give this adage considerable thought.  You have to understand that litigation is not a profit making undertaking. One way or another, It is going to cost you money. The scale of economy favors the proactive and not the slothful.

        Usually one party thinks that they will allow the other party to get an attorney to do the paperwork. Their soon to be ex, usually points out how much money they could both save by using one lawyer. Implicit in this suggestion, is  the concept that the attorney in question is going to be fair to both parties by "just following the law."  He or she is just going to prepare the papers and not take sides. If you believe that, I have some swamp land that we need to talk about.

        In this case the parties were married for over ten years, and had separated over a year ago. The husband  went to see the lawyer and offered to settle things "fairly." The parties both had substantial property and retirement accounts, which may or may not have been joined to the action. The reason for joinder is so that the retirement plan will be bound by the court's order and to prevent the owner of the retirement fund from removing the money. Makes sense if you think about it.

        Approximately one year earlier, they had finalized the divorce. As part of the judgment, they had both waived spousal support. Shortly after the divorce decree had been signed by the judge, her husband  went on disability. What I found suspicious is the fact that he told her he was going to do that before he was "injured."  Since he wasn't a psychic, my client was finally prompted to seek legal help. Even that decision was self-serving. The reason she called was because she wanted to know if she had a right to part of his  disability payments. The fact that he was committing fraud was completely ignored by her. Red lights and sirens should have been going off, but they weren't. If someone will defraud anyone, you are not immune.

        It was interesting that for  two years after the separation, the case was filed and after the judgment was signed, she  had no interest in the fairness of what they both had signed. It was only when she  thought she  could get something else from her husband, did she  bother to call an attorney about their case. It was by a purely serendipitous  accident that she called me and I  asked the questions that I did. Otherwise she would never even been aware of the potential abuse by her husband.   Despite being advised of the danger of what she did, she still didn't want to hire an attorney to advise her because, in her opinion,  it would cost her too much. This turns out to be  a perfect segue into the next part of our answer.

Three Prong Indy

        There is an old saying that goes "an attorney cannot serve two masters."  It is called a conflict of interest. Most ethical attorneys will tell the first party who contacts them that they can  only represent one party and not both. In fact an ethical attorney will advise the non-represented party of this fact and recommend that they contact an attorney before proceeding. Once you go to an attorney and they speak to you about a case, they are your attorney. That attorney cannot turn around and represent the adverse party after meeting with you. The only exception to this situation would be one where the attorney is acting as a mediator and doesn't take any part in the litigation if mediation fails.      

         Unfortunately some less than ethical attorneys will take the money and let the other party think what they want. Doesn't sound real fair does it? Well it isn't. Some attorneys justify this practice by relying on the axiom that they are only "zealously" representing their clients like they are suppose to. Since they don't owe the other party a duty of fair dealing, they are within their duty not to tell the other party anything.  While the State Bar sees this differently, many attorneys will take a chance and screw you over.

        While this may not sound fair, the reality is that they are not totally wrong. An attorney doesn't owe the other party anything. If you are going to represent yourself, then it is your responsibility to look out for yourself. It is not your soon to be ex-spouse's responsibility nor is it his attorney's duty. You should be very clear that if your ex-spouse's attorney can gain an advantage for your husband, that is the attorneys duty and he would be negligent if he didn't take full advantage of your ignorance.

        If you ask your ex's attorney if the offer is fair? they will probably say it is or if they are more scrupulous they will suggest that you have an attorney look it over for you. But since that will take time and may cost you a few dollars, many people don't bother to take advantage of checking out the real impact of the agreement before they sign it.  Instead they foolishly assume that their  ex's attorney is being totally fair and you sign on the dotted line. 

        If you do this you, not only are you being stupid, you are also being cheap. Not a good combination.  You actually think that you are the smarter of the two because you didn't have to hire an attorney. Instead you mooched from his attorney. Wrong. You have just been screwed and don't even know it. I have seen many clients that are reluctant to initiate a divorce, instead waiting for the other person to initiate the action.

        This kind of thinking is childish and stupid. Think about it this way. There is a switch in your head. On one side of the switch is the label "we" and on the other side is the word "me."   If you are still thinking "we"  when you should be thinking "me,"  you are half way to hell. Why, you ask? Because he has already changed the switch to "me" and he isn't trying to look out for you. I see this most often in couples who have been married for a long time and play games with each other. One party misses the message that the game is over and that party usually  gets screwed with a capital "S."  Given the fact that these people have been playing games for years, I don't really feel sorry for the victim. After all they asked for it, didn't they?

Three Prong Indy

        In today's world you cannot engage in the same childish behavior that you may have in high school. The world doesn't care what crazy ideas you have floating around in your head. Or what you thought the law was. If you act as your own lawyer, then you are held to the same standard as a real lawyer is. One attorney cannot represent both of you, nor should they. There is absolutely no excuse for being foolish and cheap. Guess what? No one is going to save your butt for you. If you are looking for a helping had, you will find it at the end of your own arm. Use it to pick up the phone and get help.

Three Prong Indy

        To be technically fair, there is a legal exception to this rule.  Which means that under certain conditions an attorney can "legally" represent an adverse party. Although the attorney still cannot represent both parties. For example, attorney able represented man in a totally different action. The action could be against the current wife or against someone else. The material fact is that attorney able represented man and not current wife. Theoretically attorney able could represent current wife against man, if man waived the conflict in writing. Why man would consent to this is beyond me, but under this single situation he could, legally change sides.

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